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To Our Shared Success,

Judith & Jim

"When You Discover The Way To Date 'Smart' You'll Attract Only The People Who Are Right For You!"

Welcome . . . you've arrived at the turning point you've been looking for!

Judith Sherven PhD & Jim Sniechowski PhD

hat if you would never again, on any date, feel the fear of being strung along, taken for granted, stood up, abused, or betrayed? No fear of revealing too much or too little. No fear of being bored or boring. No fear of wondering whether you're smart, sexy, strong, or sensitive enough. Knowing that who you are is exactly enough.

Do you want that? To trust yourself that much. And not just trust. What if you could guarantee it? Every time! And then know, really know, with your whole heart, that finding The One you're looking for . . . Is Just A Matter Of Time.

Hi, Judith & Jim here . . .

Dating can be a real ordeal, right? A trial instead of time well spent. We know it. And you know it.

But, what if all that ordeal dating can become a thing of the past . . . just a memory of how it used to be . . . so that you look forward to and enjoy dating.

No joke. Really enjoy. Every single time!

Well, in this letter you're going to find a different way to date, an approach to dating that will bring you what you've wanted. Because it's sincere, real, tested, and proven successful.

So, it's important that you read this letter . . . all the way through . . . because that shows you're serious.

And, you'll want to follow through with what you'll read on this page . . . and then enjoy as every single date turns into a success . . . guaranteed!

So . . . if you're looking for a way to date that's real, a way you really can count on, we can show you how to make dating relaxed, simple, spontaneous, fun, and most of all truly rewarding each and every time.

What Are We Talking About?

It's a way of dating we've developed and proven . . . to ourselves through our own dating (and we've been married for 19 years) . . . and through the countless men and women who've attended our seminars and been our coaching clients during that time.

It's a style of dating that you can be sure will work to your benefit every time . . . and it doesn't matter how the date turns out.

We call it

Smart Dating for Success Every Time: Guaranteed!

And we mean it. Guaranteed!

We know you're looking for something . . . some way that will work . . .

And we have it.

That's the straight scoop. We have it and you can too.

So we're going to say it again . . .

Every Date Can Be A Success Every Time . . . Guaranteed!

This is what Wendi Palumbo said after she followed our program and started to Date Smart for Success Every Time.

But So Many People Ask Us. . . So Why Does Dating Have to Be Such an Ordeal?

Because dating's been just one bad experience after another . . . and even when dates aren't bad, they're not really good.

But since dating's the way most men and women go about trying to find The One . . . it's either dating or nothing. So don't you think it would be important to uncover why dating's so crazy making?

So we decided to ask.

We took two international surveys asking men and women . . . "What Do You Most Want To Know About Dating?"

We had a fantastic response — 58% women and 42% men. They ranged in age between 22 and 68 and both men and women had similar things to say.

Here are a few of their questions that begin to shed light on the problem.

• How do I date without giving off a desperate vibe?
• How do I stop getting attached too soon?
• How do I find out key information early without coming on too strong?
• Why do I keep repeating this pattern—start out fine and then crash?
• How do I recognize issues before a relationship becomes strangling?
• I'm 65. Where do I start?
• How do I keep from feeling rejected?
• Where do I go, instead of bars and clubs, to meet someone?
• How can I make someone interested in me?
• Is there a time when you're actually done with dating? I mean, forever?

When you ask even one of these questions and you don't have the answer . . . you start out every date trying to catch up . . . and you don't even know what to "catch up" to?

That's what makes dating such a depressing ordeal. 

BUT . . . inside every one of these questions there‘s a HIDDEN MISTAKE that causes the anxiety, heartache, worry, self-doubt, fear of rejection . . . you name it . . .

A hidden mistake that, once you know it, you'll begin to see your way out of the mess dating's been for you.

AND . . . what's that mistake?

Imagine this . . .

You're sitting at dinner, or out for a walk and your head's just chattering away with . . .

"Why is he looking at me that way? Is there something wrong?"

Or "Does she mean what she says, or not? What does she want from me?"

Remember a time when you were caught in that kind of rattling anxiety.

Did you ever ask to find out if what you thought was happening was actually really truly happening?

Chances are you didn't.

And when both of you are doing it. . . not asking, not finding out. . . what chance is there to feel comfortable and make a real connection?

None!

So, How Can You Stop Suffering
Through Another Ordeal Date?

This is what you need to stop the dating struggle, to get off that treadmill that goes nowhere. Get our new program — Smart Dating for Success Every Time - Guaranteed! . . . and join the community of Smart Daters across the country.  

We Were No Different Than You — To Make Dating Worth It We Had To Learn Another Way

Here's Judith's story:

"I can still remember those nights when I was so depressed. I cried myself to sleep. The closest I ever got to marriage was being engaged-to-be-engaged — twice."

"I knew there was more to dating than what I was doing . . . if only I could figure it out."

"Then suddenly, I got it. Like a revelation . . . a thunderstroke . . . an insight that changed my life . . . forever. Not long that after I met Jim on a blind date and we've been married for 19 years."

Now Listen to Jim:

"My first marriage happened because I was young and I believed I was supposed to get married. Bad reason."

"My second marriage looked like it was going to last forever. But then life threw a nasty wedge between us and, try as I could, nothing would hold it together."

"After that, I decided I would never again do what I'd always done, even if it meant never being in another relationship. And that decision changed me and opened me up to possibilites I'd never seen before."

And This Is What Changed in Us

We both got past the fantasies and daydreams we had about dating and took back control over what we were doing. We both made the same vow:

• No more games . . . they only lead to more games.
• No more trying to impress . . . trying to be what we were not.
• No more trying to figure out how dates were supposed to be . . . instead we made them what we wanted them to be.

How Great Will It Be When You
Change the Way You Date?

Imagine you're getting ready to go out. And, instead of worrying about what you look like, or if you're interesting enough, or how you're going to act, or what you'll say, or if she'll like you, or if he'll call
back . . .

You're completely relaxed, eager to discover what will happen. How does that feel?

How does it feel to know that, no matter what happens, you can trust . . . down to your toes . . . that you're going to be okay . . . so that you won't ever again leave a date feeling frustrated, rejected, or like you wasted your time?

Because . . . once you begin Smart Dating for Success Every Time - Guaranteed! . . . you'll be able to make dating everything you want it to be . . . in fact, much more than you now imagine it can be.

Make Dating More Than You Can Now Imagine? Do You Believe You Can? You should . . .

Because here's what our "Success Every Time" program has in store for you.

You will finally discover:

• How to protect yourself from the emotional risks of dating . . . this alone is worth more than the whole package
• Why "traditional" dating is not in your best interest . . . because it's about everything BUT your best interest
• That you can get what you want out of every date . . . no matter how it goes
• How to feel comfortable being in control . . . without the date being all about you
• How to get rid of the pre-date butterflies . . .there won't be any need
• What to do if you get into a conflict on a date . . . so you won't feel overwhelmed
• How to recognize the kind of dating mind-set that leads to all kinds of problems . . . even divorce
• How being passive is the worst thing you can do . . . this is especially true for women
• How Smart Dating is NOT about manipulation, coping, giving the benefit of the doubt . . . but IS about the fabulous freedom to be who you are

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Okay . . . If You Get All That, How Will Your Life Be Different?

If you take in and practice Smart Dating for Success Every Time - Guaranteed . . .

• You'll determine your purpose for dating and how this shapes every date you have . . . because without a purpose, you're at the mercy of whatever the other person does . . . and you don't want that
• You'll know where to go to meet people you'll want to date . . . people who will be interested in someone just like you . . . and that's a dater's dream
• You'll be able to speak your mind without fear . . . and discover that that's a key to being attractive to The One who's looking for you
• You'll never have to tolerate one of those dreadful blind dates ever again . . . because there's an easy solution
• You'll know that details like who pays the bill are no longer a problem . . . and it won't matter whether you're the man or the woman
• You'll be able to spot your emotional resistance and know what to do about it . . . so you're negative head chatter can't rule the date
• You'll take care of yourself first without being selfish at all . . . another key to being far more attractive than you now even imagine
• You'll understand the "Date the Way You Want to Mate" principle . . . and why it leads to successful marriage . . . a marriage built on real connection and feelings you can count on long term

Are There Other Programs Out There?

Of course there are.

But if you're looking at other programs be sure to check them out carefully. If they don't provide at least most of what we're making available to you, then we ask why bother?

On the other hand, Smart Dating For Success Every Time - Guaranteed is exactly right for you only if you're serious and want to turn dating into an experience that leads to finding The One you're looking for.

Because to find The One . . . that's the whole point. Right?

So What Should You Do?

Make up your mind that you will:

• Stop doing what you've always done before. Why would you want to keep doing that?
• Quit treating yourself in any way that keeps you stuck. You wouldn't treat others that way.
• Make an investment in the kind of life you want. Not short-term but real intimacy.
• Commit to your future.  It's yours for the making.
• And Start Right Now

Secure Your Smart Dating Program

Because the Smart Dating package goes deep into the heart of what makes dating work . . . every time . . . without fail.

So when you start right now and secure your copy of the Smart Dating program, you'll get:

• 8 Audio Lessons (mp3 download). . . covering dating from start to finish:

1. Taking the Heat Off Dating
2. Where Do You Focus: Inside or Out?
3. The Most Important Question You Must Answer
4. How Not to Give Yourself Away
5. The Hidden Blocks that Keep You Stuck
6. Chemistry and Connection: One or Both?
7. Change — The Key to Your Freedom
8. Finding "The One"

• The Smart Dating PDF handbook transcript which includes the entire program along with Personal Action Plans that add to and support your listening

• Your Personal Smart Dating Self-Survey — designed specifically to help you get a clear picture of how you approach dating and why
• Your Personal Smart Dating Self-Worth Survey — designed specifically to help you see and accept the value you bring to each and every date
• Your Personal Smart Dating Take-Action Survey — designed specifically to motivate you to step forward toward your goals and dreams
• Six Inspiring Articles (read by men and women around the world):
  

  The Magic of Differences
  The Masks We Wear
  Are You Dating With Pizzazz?
  On the Other Side of Insecurity
  Forbidden Fruit . . . Or Not?
  Be Loved for Who You Really Are

• 5 Personal Take-Action Plans
• Your Personal Romance I.Q. Quiz
• 40 Places to Meet and Mingle

And Our Famous "Enjoy 100% Satisfaction Guarantee"

Our Promise:
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It's really simple.

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• Your Personal Smart Dating Take-Action Survey, to support the changes you'll make
• Six In-Depth Articles that will reinforce your new way of dating
• 5 Personal Take-Action Plans, so you have step-by-step guidance
• Your Personal Romance I.Q. Quiz, which will make you more available for real intimacy
• 40 Places to Meet and Mingle, so you'll know how to answer your question. . .“Where do I go to meet the right kinds of people?”
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P.S. Remember

• You'll never have to worry about dating again
• You'll trust your purpose for dating and how it shapes every date you have
• You'll understand the 4 keys to confident, failure-proof dating
• You'll know where to go to meet people you'll want to date
• You'll be able to speak your mind without fear  
• You'll know that details like who pays the bill are no longer a problem
• You'll learn how receiving is a gift to you and your date
• You'll be able to spot your emotional resistance and know what to do about it
• You'll take care of yourself first without being selfish at all
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"What Do Happily Married Couples Know That Makes Their Relationships So Incredibly Great?"

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It's More Fun + Simpler Than You Think

The Fact Is You Never Received Any Good Preparation For
Effective Dating or Successful, Long Lasting Marriage

So You're Doing the Best You Can! You Are!

BUT There's So Much More For You To Enjoy... Truly...

Very often people mistakenly tell us that the reason we have such a good marriage is that we're a psychology team and we both have PhDs in the subject.

BUT . . . that's NOT it at all . . .

The real scoop is that we are really, really different from each other.

You can relate, can't you?

AND we genuinely love each other. So, when we decided to get married 21 years ago, we didn't want to risk getting divorced . . .

So we made an agreement, a solemn oath, to make sure we found the personal and spiritual lessons, the hidden blessings . . . in our differences . . .and of course what that really meant was in any conflict that we would inevitably get into.

That's how we discovered the magic in our differences . . .

Just like they exist in your differences . . .Oh, Yes they do!

You see, when we had to resolve our conflicts so both of us benefitted . . .

Cause that's what it means when you love someone . . . you can't want to wipe someone out and emotionally clobber them . . . and call it love . . .

No way!

So through practicing healthy conflict resolution that's how we realized the very real magic in our differences, the real-life magic that continues to help us reach further and further for the truth . . .

Far beyond our nutty, unconscious blind spots that were responsible for most if not all of the conflicts we've gotten into.

We're also committed to the joy of affection across those differences . . . and that's opened up a whole new powerful world of "Small Kindnesses"

That creates an atmosphere of playful sweetness between us all the rest of the time.

The Joy of Small Kindnesses

There's something more about our differences that's been majorly important . . .and we know it's hugely important to you . . .

You see, it's been in those differences that we've also discovered the romantic power, the sweet little passions in what we call "Small Kindnesses" . . . the tiny little endearments that rekindle romance and keep love ready to move you forward.

You know yourself that you always want to be remembered . . . you want to know that you're still special in the eyes and heart of the one you love . . .

So, that's why Small Kindnesses are so important. And in our first and brand-new eBook "Living Your Love Every Day" you'll get to read about how we weave them into our everyday life.

You see this 3 Volume book isn't an academic text. It's not even your typical self-help book.

You might have been expecting that. Cause, we've been teaching singles and couples about real love and sweet romance in seminars, keynotes, newsletters . . . you name it . . . and we have 4 books out there on the subject . . .

But our real credentials are the 21 years we've been together (20 married). That's where we learned what we pass along . . .

So, What's So Special About It?

Here's the # 1 Question we're asked, by singles and couples alike . . .

"How Do You Keep Romance Alive?"

83% of men and women who responded to our international survey included that question in some way in response to our question, "What do you most want to know about relationships?"

AND what's special . . . is that what we've learned throughout our marriage is . . .

HOW YOU KEEP ROMANCE ALIVE FOR A LIFETIME. . .

No Ifs . . . No Buts . . . No Maybes . . .

This is the Real Deal . . .

And we know it's what you want too . . .

Even if you have a pretty good relationship, you still want to know how to make it better, how to make it more passionate, more fun, more . . . well, you know . . .

Your Insight is a Must

Yes, I Want To Start Living My Love Everyday!

Yes, we're inviting you inside our relationship, inside our marriage, to share with you what we learned about . . .

Living Your Love Every Day

As we said, that's the name of our first e-Book.

Before we say more, see what others have to say:

Now we invite you to open your heart, to give yourself the gift of "Living Your Love Every Day."

Only $19.95 for all 3 volumes (instant PDF download) because we want you to say "Yes" right now to having more love in your life - more real, every day love!

Because It's All in the Connection,

Judith & Jim

Our Promise:
"You Will Enjoy 100% Satisfaction"

It's really simple.

We Promise "Living Your Love Everyday" Will Open New Doors In Your Love Life . . .

So You Can Start Enjoying More Romance And Intimacy All The Time...

We're giving you 60-Days to put it to the test, We Guarantee You'll Enjoy 100% Satisfaction or we'll honor you with a Prompt, No-Questions Asked, Full Money-Back Refund. We do this so you can enjoy the peace of mind that you are making a great investment in your love-life at NO RISK to you!

You're Listening
To Judith & Jim

Congratulations on taking a positive step toward a long-lasting relationship filled with REAL Romance!

To show our appreciation for your decision we're introducing an EXCLUSIVE special offer that is ONLY available for new customers of "The Romance Package"

We call it "The Promise of Conflict"... It's a powerful concept that can literally change your life.

Read on to learn more about the "Promise of Conflict" or skip to the bottom to complete your purchase

Are You Afraid of Conflict?

Do You Wish It Would Never Happen?

Would Your Life Be Better Off Without It?

Maybe.

But, What If . . .

CONFLICT

Could Be The Doorway To Loving And Living Like You've Never Dared Imagine...

Here's a question for you...

"What is the Cost of Conflict?"

If you’re like everybody else on this planet, you, no doubt, have a lot to say. Because conflicts between family and friends, colleagues, lovers, husbands and wives . . .

They go on all the time.

The truth is that relationships — even the best of relationships — experience conflicts . . . from simple disagreements to differences of opinion all the way to fights. As much as you’d like to think otherwise, that’s the truth.

So here’s another question for you.

"What is the Benefit of Conflict?"

That’s right... the BENEFIT of Conflict. Can there be such a thing?

Straight Talk

Let’s talk straight about this.

Conflict is one of the most frightening and often loss-filled experiences we can have – whether in your love life, with a friend, a relative or with somebody you work with.

That’s most people’s experience. So it’s no wonder that most everybody would like conflict to just go away . . . vanish . . . disappear forever.

Well frankly, so would we. But, just as frankly, we’re not holding our breath.

At this stage of human evolution, conflict seems to be part of being alive.

So the question is . . . what do you do in the meantime?

Hide? Run? Rage? Collapse? Become paralyzed? Those are real choices real people make. And every one of those choices has NO payoff . . . except lots more pain.

That’s right, avoiding conflict brings nothing but pain . . . a pain that over time squeezes out your life force . . . vitality . . . joy . . . wonder. And with some people, even the desire to be alive.

We’re not telling you anything you don't know.

So What Are We Telling You?

First, we’re saying that conflict is unavoidable.

BUT . . .

We’re also saying that there is a promise in conflict, a promise most people don’t know about at all and so can't imagine that conflict could possibly produce any benefits.

AND . . .

To that we’re saying that there is a hidden treasure in every conflict if you just know how and where to look.

Sand in the Oyster

Do you know where pearls come from? Yes, pearls. From oysters. But you probably knew that.

But do you know how a pearl is formed?

A bit of grit or sand gets lodged inside the oyster’s shell and . . . this is the important fact . . . the oyster experiences that grit as an irritation. A threat. It’s something alien. Something that has to be dealt with.

...in other words a conflict.

What does the oyster do? It begins to secrete a special fluid around that piece of grit to stop the threat. The bigger and more irritating the grit, the more fluid the oyster releases.

Finally the aggravating grit is completely coated and the fluid solidifies. At which point the conflict is over and the oyster returns to being at ease.

BUT, what of that hardened fluid? What was originally a move the protect against a serious threat is now . . . the pearl.

From threat to pearl. From conflict to treasure.

That’s what is hidden at the center of your every conflict. A treasure waiting to be discovered.

How Do We Know?

Good question. But it’s not important how we know (we’ll tell in just a bit). What’s important is that . . .

You too can know — if you want to.

You too can learn how to find the treasure at the heart of every conflict. If you want to.

And that’s what “The Promise of Conflict” is all about. A one-hour audio download and PDF transcript that can turn your head around when in comes to handling conflict.

Our Dedication to You

The power of conflict and the fear it raises is something we’re dedicated to helping people master. Why? Because the world will be a better place for the effort.

No, we're not altruists. We make our living selling our books, CDs, teleseminars, and other products that help people– from dating, through wedding planning, and on into lasting marriages- make better relationships all around.

But since conflict remains the big bugaboo it is for most people, relationships are stymied from the start. So it’s better for you and for us. . . for relationships in general . . . that you know better how to handle your conflicts when they come up.

So that’s why we created “The Promise if Conflict.” It’s better for everyone.

Who We Are

We’re husband and wife Judith Sherven and Jim Sniechowski, best-selling authors of four relationship books —

• Be Loved for Who You Really Are
• Opening to Love 365 Days a Year
• The New Intimacy
• The Smart Couple’s Guide to the Wedding of Your Dreams

As you can see, we focus on love and relationships.

We both have PhDs, Judith’s in psychology and Jim’s in human behavior. We’ve been guest experts on more than 1500 radio and TV shows including Oprah, The View, Canada AM, 48 Hours, and CNN. We’ve written for or been interviewed by hundreds of publications including the Los Angeles Times, Wall Street Journal, USA Today, TIME, Newsweek, O, Redbook, Playboy, Parents, Cosmo, Men’s Health, and many, many more.

And we’ve worked with thousands of singles and couples over the last 21 years in our private practice, in workshops, teleseminars, and corporate consulatations nationally and internationally.

But we believe our real expertise comes out of living what we teach – walking our talk.

We’ve been married for 18 years and we know about what we call —

The Promise of Conflict

We’ve had to find our way through our own conflicts . . . and we have.

So what's the payoff to you?

Real romance and real love. A down-to-earth love that is more romantic, more meaningful, more rewarding, and more fun than any romantic fantasy you can dream up.

The pearl waiting at the heart of your conflicts.

So How Will You Benefit?

Download this MP3 audio program to your computer or ipod and learn how to:

• Identify the biggest obstacle to healthy conflict
• Uncover reasons for conflict-phobia
• Focus on fighting fair
• Resolve conflicts to your mutual satisfaction and benefit

Discover how conflict can:

• Open your mind and heart to see yourself more fully and with more value
• Scale down your limitations so you can better connect with others
• Help you develop sincere and real emotional intimacy
• Heal old wounds that are triggered by unhealthy conflicts
• Create relationships that are safe and trustworthy

Also, you will learn the one essential question you must answer to make sure you are available for a mutually beneficial outcome to any conflict.

Is There a Promise to Conflict?

Absolutely. All you need to know is how to find it. And that's what The Promise of Conflict is all about.

And this one-hour MP3 download and PDF transcript is..................................Only $27

Just $27 to find the pearl that’s waiting in those conflicts that are sure to come up.

The Promise of Conflict is the perfect companion to Keeping Romance Alive

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Keeping Romance Alive

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Making Love Out of Bed

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Our wish for you is that you enjoy the relationship of your dreams that will carry you through your life together.

It’s All in the Connection

Just Imagine . . .

Just imagine what your relationship will be like when you grow closer and more intimate because you know how to create romance --- Real Romance --- every day.

Just imagine being loved for who you really are because you can trust your conflicts can be resolved and so you don’t have to fear what you feel.

Just imagine that relationship. And then . . .

Just imagine the rest of your life together.

Do You Want the Pleasure of Sweet, Tender Romance
...the Real Thing?

Not Just Now and Then but EVERY DAY?

Romance Can Be Yours
Anytime!
Anywhere!

"It's Not Your Fault That You Want More Romance.
You Were Never Taught the Secrets To Keeping Romance Alive"

ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS SAY YES.
WILL YOU?

No matter how much you try... No matter how much you struggle against it... No matter how much your heart wants it . . .

If your relationship is like most others, sooner or later the sweet romance of the early years . . . that dazzling, blissful time in the beginning that seemed like a miracle . . .

That time of wonderful promise... of endless possibilities

That time... fades... and romance fades with it...

For some, it disappears, never to be had again.

It's a deep loss, a loss that almost everybody suffers so much so that it seems like just part of being alive.

Like it's written somewhere that you can have romance only in a short burst, and, after that...well...you know...

You may comfort yourself with the thought that...It's a mystery.

But the memory and the longing for romance never goes away. Never.

It becomes a wish in the night. Part of your secret prayer. A deep desire that refuses to remain silent.

What Men and Women Want

Several years ago we conducted a nationwide survey. We asked this question to over 6000 men and women:

"What do you most want to know about relationships?"

Their answers covered a lot of categories: sex, children, money, communication, conflict.

BUT the overwhelming answer

83% of everyone who responded said, in some way or another:

"How Do You Keep Romance Alive?"

83% wanted a way to prevent the wonder, the joy, the fulfillment of romance from fading into the background of their relationship if not out the back door, gone forever.

Even though you may be surprised that so many said the same thing, it's not really a surprise. Not if you think about it for a second.

If everyone knew how to keep romance alive and burning there would be no need for a day like Valentine's Day as the ONE day of the year for romance.

Why?

Because every day would be a day for romance.

Does that sound like wishful thinking? Fantasy thinking? Maybe even nutty thinking?

And What About Those Who Said Sex?

Okay, what about sex?

No one's denying that sex is important. Not at all.

But where does fabulous sex; passionate, fantastic, deep and loving sex, where does it come from?

You know that sex can be the least intimate that's right; the least intimate experience you can have. (You may be surprised to know that both women AND men feel that way sometimes.)

Sex devoid of intimacy, of closeness, of caring - both ways - from him to her and her to him is just that. Sex. Period.

Still... isn't what you want - really want - to make love?

Exactly.

But where does making love - sweet, tender, passionate making love come from?

From the both of you - together - from your willingness - from your openness - from your sharing and caring - in other words - from real and honest intimacy. Emotional intimacy every day.

That's how you keep romance alive.

Making Love Out of Bed

But most people believe that making love can only happen at certain times, and only in certain places, and that sure puts a crimp on when and where, doesn't it?

So love making becomes sex, romance becomes obligation, and intimacy... intimacy is long gone.

So, what can you do?

All you need is to open your mind beyond your current imaginings... and the possibilities are endless.

It's that simple

How is that?

By Making Love Out Of Bed.

Openhearted, passionate love making is not based in sex, but in the affection, respect, laughter, admiration, attention, pleasure, care, playfulness, and acceptance the two of you can give to each other every minute of every day. That's what we call Making Love Out Of Bed.

When you're not making love out of bed . . . then, what happens in bed... is usually just sex... and "just sex" can never be fulfilling... as you already know.

So, you see, making love out of bed is not a clever turn of phrase. It's the foundation of real romance - a romance you can trust and enjoy - and depend upon to keep your relationship alive as long as you can imagine.

By Making Love Out Of Bed, we promise you this . . .

You will re-kindle the joy and pleasure of romance . . .and you will open to a new depth of connection and emotional intimacy... AND that will create a foundation for the best love making of your life.

AND - it's easier than you think.

Keeping Romance Alive

To show you how to keep romance alive, we've put together - into one package - two of our most popular Audio Programs.

"Keeping Romance Alive"

One of our most in-depth, popular and successful teleseminars.
(1 Hour)

Making Love Out of Bed

You learn our secrets for how you can make love in ways that have nothing to do with bed.
(1 Hour)

Here's what the CDs are about.

No, no... first, here's what they are NOT about -

...They're NOT about 1001 sex positions to - spice up - your life

    ...They're NOT about seducing or being seduced

       ...They're NOT about games, lies, or cheap pick-up lines

They Are About:

• Discovering deeper intimacy with your love-partner
• Enjoying the true happiness that comes with having that closeness
• Knowing, for a fact, that you are loved for who you really are
• Knowing that you can trust that love because it's based on real intimacy
• Making every single day special, not because of a special circumstance, but because you're simply together.
• Making love out of bed so that the moment you do make love in bed, you've got the intimacy, romance, desire, and willingness to give yourself to it

What's More...

In Keeping Romance Alive here's more of what you'll discover -

The problem with romance and how you can quickly identify it so that it doesn't bring you failure in your relationship.

The difference between "Hollywood" romance and REAL romance... not knowing this is what kills most marriages and relationships.

The beauty you'll discover in REAL romance.

Many women say that men really aren't romantic... that they pretend to be romantic in order to get them into bed. Is that true? And why is the answer important to your relationship.

The #1 most important question you need to answer about romance . . . not answering this is the quickest way to heartbreak.

What to do if you don't have time to make love in bed.

3 secrets for creating romance, even if... it's been a long time since you've been romantic.

And here's more of what you'll discover in Making Love Out of Bed -

How the movies, TV, and mass media are misleading you and your relationship and what to do about it.

The #1 reason why most relationships fail . . . not knowing this can only guarantee failure...

What is making love? What is making love out of bed?

The #1 thing your man (or woman) wants to hear from you.

What intimacy REALLY means . . . it's NOT what most people think it is.

4 ways to easily make love out of bed every day.

How curiosity is one of the world's most powerful aphrodisiacs.

There's a lot more that we cover in these recordings, but again, this is all about you and your relationship so that you can truly enjoy each other in ways that most people only dream of.

Something Very Special

You can instantly download these audios directly to your computer or ipod...

Both of these mastered audio presentations have been edited and formatted so you can listen instantly on your computer, transfer to your ipod or portable music player or even burn to CD to play on your CD player at home, or in your car. You will be able to download our .mp3 audio program along with the accompanying .pdf transcripts immediately after your purchase just minutes from now.

AND the information you'll get with this package is not available anywhere else. It's not theory. Not just ideas. But real, practical, enjoyable guidance that's worked for thousands of others and now it can work for you.

You can have this Special Romance Package (not available anywhere else)

for Only........... $47.

But before you decide, we want to include a Companion Bonus . . .

"Communication...Lousy, or Loving?"

This 1-Hour Audio Download . . . an incredible value. . . will be automatically included when you order today.

At NO additional charge to you.

In "Communication . . . Lousy or Loving?" you'll receive new information about how your everyday conversations can be improved to create better understanding and more closeness.

And, you'll get the inside scoop on what to watch for . . . in your everyday talking . . . that may be getting in the way of the romantic connection you so dearly want.

That's right, "Communication . . . Lousy or Loving?" . . . is yours absolutley FREE when you order today.

AND there's also NO RISK to you.

We're so sure that this Special Romance Package will open the door to your love life . . .

So You Can Enjoy Real Romance Every Day, Anywhere...

That's why we're giving you our 60-Day, No-Questions Asked, Money-Back Guarantee so you can enjoy the peace of mind that you are making a great investment in your love-life!

There you have it . . .

Romance, real romance, anywhere and all the time. What could be better?

Keeping Romance Alive and Making Love Out of Bed are perfect for you and that special someone in your life.

All you have to do now . . . is say YES.

Not to us, but to yourself.

To a better relationship . . .

Yes, so you can be yourself . . .and

Yes, to the pleasure and joy of romance - real romance - in ways like never before.

Keep Romance Alive . . . Making Love Out Of Bed . . . every day for the rest of your life.

That's where sweet, tender, passionate love making comes from.

All you have to do is say - Yes.

It's All in the Connection,

Judith & Jim

PS - Just So You're Absolutely Certain . . .

In case you don't know us . . .

We're bestselling authors, and husband-and-wife psychology team Judith Sherven, Ph.D. and Jim Sniechowski, Ph.D.

Our confidence in this Keeping Romance Alive package comes from . . .

Working with singles and couples, nationally and internationally, for over 20 years . . .

Inspiring them with our lively and fun . . . yet . . . get-right-to-the-heart-of-the-issue AND take-action approach.

We're never afriad to share stories from our own dating, wedding, and 21 year marriage

And our approach has attracted a large and loyal following.

We are also the proud authors of four books:

"Be Loved For Who You Really Are"
" The New Intimacy."
" Opening to Love 365 Days a Year"
" The Smart Couple's Guide to the Wedding of Your Dreams"

AND we've been featured as guest experts on over 1100 television and radio shows including Oprah, The View, The O'Reilly Factor, 48 Hours, The Daily Buzz, Canada AM, and CNN.

AND

We named our company From Dating To Marriage because regardless of your relationship status real romance can happen...everyday!

So, We know what we're talking about.

That's why you can trust us...

And why you shouldn't hesitate...

To Say YES!