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Are You Afraid of Conflict?
Do You Wish It Would Never Happen?
Would Your Life Be Better Off Without It?
Maybe.
But, What If . . .
CONFLICT
Could Be The Doorway To Loving And Living Like You've Never Dared Imagine...
Here's a question for you...
"What is the Cost of Conflict?"
If you’re like everybody else on this planet, you, no doubt, have a lot to say. Because conflicts between family and friends, colleagues, lovers, husbands and wives . . .
They go on all the time.
The truth is that relationships — even the best of relationships — experience conflicts . . . from simple disagreements to differences of opinion all the way to fights. As much as you’d like to think otherwise, that’s the truth.
So here’s another question for you.
"What is the Benefit of Conflict?"
That’s right... the BENEFIT of Conflict. Can there be such a thing?
You Guys Tell It Like It Is
A lot of people talk about how to handle arguing and fighting
in a relationship. And it’s usually a lot of psychobabble. You
guys tell it like it is. Like it is in the real world in real
relationships. That let us know what to do and not back away.
You’ve changed our relationship and our life together. Thanks
so much.
Stan and Margie Lewandowski, Traverse City, MI
Straight Talk
Let’s talk straight about this.
Conflict is one of the most frightening and often loss-filled experiences we can have – whether in your love life, with a friend, a relative or with somebody you work with.
That’s most people’s experience. So it’s no wonder that most everybody would like conflict to just go away . . . vanish . . . disappear forever.
Well frankly, so would we. But, just as frankly, we’re not holding our breath.
At this stage of human evolution, conflict seems to be part of being alive.
So the question is . . . what do you do in the meantime?
Hide? Run? Rage? Collapse? Become paralyzed? Those are real choices real people make. And every one of those choices has NO payoff . . . except lots more pain.
That’s right, avoiding conflict brings nothing but pain . . . a pain that over time squeezes out your life force . . . vitality . . . joy . . . wonder. And with some people, even the desire to be alive.
We’re not telling you anything you don't know.
So What Are We Telling You?
First, we’re saying that conflict is unavoidable.
BUT . . .
We’re also saying that there is a promise in conflict, a promise most people don’t know about at all and so can't imagine that conflict could possibly produce any benefits.
AND . . .
To that we’re saying that there is a hidden treasure in every conflict if you just know how and where to look.
Not A Lot of Hype
When I first heard you say The Promise of Conflict I thought
it was just another load of hype. The truth is I don’t know
why I bought your program. Maybe to be shown how wrong I was.
Anyway, I was. When you know how to handle a conflict it’s filled
with good stuff. You’re right and that’s really good.
Howard Osner, Cheyenne, WY
Sand in the Oyster
Do you know where pearls come from? Yes, pearls. From oysters. But you probably knew that.
But do you know how a pearl is formed?
A bit of grit or sand gets lodged inside the oyster’s shell and . . . this is the important fact . . . the oyster experiences that grit as an irritation. A threat. It’s something alien. Something that has to be dealt with.
...in other words a conflict.
What does the oyster do? It begins to secrete a special fluid around that piece of grit to stop the threat. The bigger and more irritating the grit, the more fluid the oyster releases.
Finally the aggravating grit is completely coated and the fluid solidifies. At which point the conflict is over and the oyster returns to being at ease.
BUT, what of that hardened fluid? What was originally a move the protect against a serious threat is now . . . the pearl.
From threat to pearl. From conflict to treasure.
That’s what is hidden at the center of your every conflict. A treasure waiting to be discovered.
How Do We Know?
Good question. But it’s not important how we know (we’ll tell in just a bit). What’s important is that . . .
You too can know — if you want to.
You too can learn how to find the treasure at the heart of every conflict. If you want to.
And that’s what “The Promise of Conflict” is all about. A one-hour audio download and PDF transcript that can turn your head around when in comes to handling conflict.
You Set Me Right
You not only turned my head around, you screwed it back
on straight. I was terrified of conflict so I was a mouse when
it came to men and relationships. I was afraid I’d get run over.
But now that I see what a conflict really is, I can handle myself
because it’s not about win-lose. I am grateful to you both.
Taquisha Brown, Hattiesberg, MS
Our Dedication to You
The power of conflict and the fear it raises is something we’re dedicated to helping people master. Why? Because the world will be a better place for the effort.
No, we're not altruists. We make our living selling our books, CDs, teleseminars, and other products that help people– from dating, through wedding planning, and on into lasting marriages- make better relationships all around.
But since conflict remains the big bugaboo it is for most people, relationships are stymied from the start. So it’s better for you and for us. . . for relationships in general . . . that you know better how to handle your conflicts when they come up.
So that’s why we created “The Promise if Conflict.” It’s better for everyone.
Who We Are
We’re husband and wife Judith Sherven and Jim Sniechowski, best-selling authors of four relationship books —
- Be Loved for Who You Really Are
- Opening to Love 365 Days a Year
- The New Intimacy
- The Smart Couple’s Guide to the Wedding of Your Dreams
As you can see, we focus on love and relationships.
We both have PhDs, Judith’s in psychology and Jim’s in human behavior. We’ve been guest experts on more than 1500 radio and TV shows including Oprah, The View, Canada AM, 48 Hours, and CNN. We’ve written for or been interviewed by hundreds of publications including the Los Angeles Times, Wall Street Journal, USA Today, TIME, Newsweek, O, Redbook, Playboy, Parents, Cosmo, Men’s Health, and many, many more.
And we’ve worked with thousands of singles and couples over the last 21 years in our private practice, in workshops, teleseminars, and corporate consulatations nationally and internationally.
But we believe our real expertise comes out of living what we teach – walking our talk.
We’ve been married for 18 years and we know about what we call —
The Promise of Conflict
We’ve had to find our way through our own conflicts . . . and we have.
So what's the payoff to you?
Real romance and real love. A down-to-earth love that is more romantic, more meaningful, more rewarding, and more fun than any romantic fantasy you can dream up.
The pearl waiting at the heart of your conflicts.
You Two Walk Your Talk
What’s most important is when people walk their talk. Otherwise
they are just a fraud. You two are not a fraud. We’ve never
been helped like this in our relationship and it has never been
better. Do we still fight? Sure. Who doesn’t. But we don’t try
to hurt each other like we used to. Now we get through it and
we’re better.
Ernesto and Rosalie Ruiz, Bullhead City, AZ
So How Will You Benefit?
Download this MP3 audio program to your computer or ipod and learn how to:
- Identify the biggest obstacle to healthy conflict
- Uncover reasons for conflict-phobia
- Focus on fighting fair
- Resolve conflicts to your mutual satisfaction and benefit
Discover how conflict can:
- Open your mind and heart to see yourself more fully and with more value
- Scale down your limitations so you can better connect with others
- Help you develop sincere and real emotional intimacy
- Heal old wounds that are triggered by unhealthy conflicts
- Create relationships that are safe and trustworthy
Also, you will learn the one essential question you must answer to make sure you are available for a mutually beneficial outcome to any conflict.
Is There a Promise to Conflict?
Absolutely. All you need to know is how to find it. And that's what The Promise of Conflict is all about.
And this one-hour MP3 download and PDF transcript is..................................Only $27
Just $27 to find the pearl that’s waiting in those conflicts that are sure to come up.
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When I think of what I got from your programs for the money
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Our wish for you is that you enjoy the relationship of your dreams that will carry you through your life together.
It’s All in the Connection
Just Imagine . . .
Just imagine what your relationship will be like when you grow closer and more intimate because you know how to create romance --- Real Romance --- every day.
Just imagine being loved for who you really are because you can trust your conflicts can be resolved and so you don’t have to fear what you feel.
Just imagine that relationship. And then . . .
Just imagine the rest of your life together.